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Today's Love Is ... post is a little different. It is about protecting the ones you love and the lengths you will go to.

Love is ensuring the safety of those we love the most but what if those dangers sit on our laptops, tablets and smart phones? Social media is amazing and I am the first to advocate that it is a brilliant tool for promoting and sharing information but what about the information that is private? I am talking about things that are personal and once upon a time, not that long ago, we would have been simply horrified at the thought of strangers being able to look at photos of our homes, friends and most importantly, our children.

It seems almost obligatory to upload photos of a night out, a holiday or a baby scan but what if it were not only your friends that were looking?

Privacy settings are obviously a personal choice but checking into the airport as you jet off for your holiday, in my mind, just tells everyone that your house is empty for a week or so. How many of us know every single person on our friends list? How many of those people have you met in person and ultimately, how many of them do you really trust?

I know I am being overly cautious but I also know that people's desperation can lead them to do obscure things to provide for their own loved ones.

So in my book Love is .... not checking in with Facebook and keeping my family safe.

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Today's Love Is post is mine and is a very personal one.

Once upon a time when I was young and blinded by love, I remember doing everything I could to emulate the "perfect relationship" that we were perceived to have. I also remember the very moment I was emotionally crushed by being told I was only 80% perfect. It was obviously not so perfect in paradise and the beginning of the end.

80% perfect, that's what I was to the one person I thought loved me completely. Now I am not foolish enough to think I am perfect, I have enough quirks and habits to know this is not true but it still hurt.

Love is supposed to be unconditional.

Love is knowing that you may leave the top off the toothpaste, but they love you for it anyway.

Love is about trusting someone explicitly with your secrets and your heart.

Love is giving birth to new life.

Love is sharing your hopes and dreams.

Love is forgiveness.

 

My gorgeous man tells me now that Love isn't about being perfect, but quite simply that I am perfect for him.