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The Little Lilypad is a lifestyle blog mostly written by a mum to two beautiful, cheeky and entertaining daughters. It is sometimes written by the Man on the Pad or our baby bloggers and occasionally we accept guest posts. There is frequently talk of shoes and clothing (we love fashion and savvy shopping), chocolate (who doesn't love chocolate) education and swimming (we love this too). It is hopefully helpful, sometimes funny and always honest.

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  1. Childbirth is like the Land of Oz. You leave in black and white and arrive in a world saturated with glorious Technicolour. Being a parent has made me feel more vividly than I ever imagined could be possible, colouring my days with an emotional rainbow so bright I can’t remember what it was like to live without.

    Red

    My kids make me see red far more often than I am comfortable admitting. Sometimes it is because they are pushing all my buttons, other times it is because I don’t have the patience I need to deal with things calmly. I hate getting angry with them even if they have misbehaved, because the guilt which follows is terrible.

    Orange

    School mornings are frequently a simmering pot of anxiety we will be late because small people move at their own tempo and have a timetable that is completely unpredictable.

    Yellow

    Thankfully for my  sanity, yellow flashes through my days with delightful frequency. The spontaneous displays of love and affection, the joy when my girls develop a new skill or sleep through the night, and the fits of laughter over nothing in particular shine brightly to dilute the darker hues.

    Green

    Adults can be jaded. We forget the excitement and wonder that comes from exploring and discovering something new. Green represents how I have learned to see their surroundings through the eyes of my child, and the warm happiness I feel when I see how excited they are about things I have taken for granted.

    Blue

    Calm, serene days when there is no arguing, bickering, or nagging, and everyone is happy in each other’s company, are an oasis. I can never predict when it will happen but find myself taking quiet pleasure in the fact that, for now anyway, everything is perfect.

    Indigo

    When my  children are sad it is as if the umbilical cord was never cut. Their experience helps me remember with clarity how much life can hurt. One of the hardest tasks I have found as a parent helping my children to develop the resilience to deal with disappointments, friendship rifts, or the simple fact that not everyone you like will like you back.

    Violet

    Hormones, exhaustion, and guilt can throw a shadow over my life, sucking the colour from my days and leaving me feeling bruised and vulnerable. These are the times  when I question my ability to be a parent, a partner, or a valuable member society, and when I rely on my family and close friends to help me through until the spectrum begins to lighten.

    Every parent - every parent - runs this spectrum of emotion - often several times a day! Just like a real rainbow it is something I am happy to witness without questioning basking in its beauty with open-mouthed wonder that something so indescribably amazing happened in my life.

  2. I have a preschooler and a preteen and they are both technology mad. They are admitedly more tech savvy than my parents and can often be found showing their grandparents how to work an app on the phone or streaming something on Youtube but being comfortable online can mean that defences are down. As a parent (and an extremely tech savvy one at that) I am acutely aware that children think that "everyone is their friend" but we hear all the time that those online are not always what they seem.

    Phones

    I have seen my daughters friends become obsessed with taking photos of themselves (and their food), not to mention the number of followers they have on Instagram, whereas my daughter thinks I am the popularity police by wanting to verify everyone that she connects with online. Instagram is seemingly the social media of choice for many teenagers now but it is worth noting some important points:

    • Profile photos, usernames and the bio screen will always be public.
    • Users are able to block and remove followers on Instagram. The person who is blocked won’t be informed about this.
    • Shared private Instagram posts sent to social networks (e.g. Twitter) can be seen by the public unless you have set up your privacy settings on those social networks too.
    • Be aware that anybody is able to send photos and videos directly to an account without being a follower.
    • Remember to look out for location-sharing which users can enable with the ‘Add to your Photo Map’ feature. It is set ‘off’ by default, and it is strongly recommend that young users do not change the setting to ‘on’. This is because when it is on, this feature publishes the location in which a photo or video was taken, which is risky information for a young person to share publically.

    My children having online presence, even in such a strongly monitored way seems a million miles from my own childhood but while the world changes, children don't and protecting their innocence has always been my priority. We are all grown up for a really long time!! It is worthwhile taking look at this short film to see how young people are not necessarily changing but the world around them is changing.

      

    So what can we do? There are parental controls that we can use which are are designed to help parents and carers manage their child’s online activities.  There are various types, some of which are free but others which can be bought.  However, nothing is totally fool proof so as parents we need to be conscious that they don’t replace the need for adults to support and advise children using the internet.

    With new applications and games launching all the time (I suppose I can't not write this post without mentioning the current obsession with Pokemon Go) it is our responsibility to make sure that we keep up to date with what our children are using and who they are talking to online. Utilising online resources like Think U Know provides parents with sensible and up to date information about staying one step ahead. 

    So right now, I am off to check how many PokeBalls I have and see if I can catch a Pokemon or two! 

  3. Holiday season is almost upon us and packing to go on holiday is one of my least favourite tasks, especially when you are trying to squeeze every outfit possibility into a case with no flexibility. So I have been on the hunt for new packing solutions this year and I am therefore delighted to share the Tresspass Holibag 85 litre printed suitcase and give our readers the chance to win one!

    WIN a Trespass Holibag 85 Litre Printed Suitcase RRP £84.99

    Let's be honest, if you are travelling with the kids this summer, you need a suitcase that can meet your every need and the Holibag 85 litre printed suitcase is excellent for long trips to exotic locales or simply a relaxed city break. With an 85 litre capacity, you won’t need to cram everything in.

    The suitcase is designed to open into two halves; one has a single large compartment while the other has two zipped compartments for separating up.

    Other features include a name tag, a carry handle with comfortable padding, a pull out handle for the wheels and clip straps to keep the case securely shut. This lightweight suitcase is ideal for organised travelers (are mums anything but organsed??) and it avoids the hassle of overstuffed, luggage that you have to root through to find anything.

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     Main Features:

    • 85 litre printed trolley suitcase
    • 1 x main zip compartment
    • Zipped side access
    • Zipped top pocket
    • Adjustable pull handle
    • Padded carry handle
    • Name tag
    • Internal organiser
    • 66 x 40 x 40

    So if you want to be in with a chance to win one, just enter below! Good luck!! 

     a Rafflecopter giveaway

    Terms & Conditions:

    The Prize: 1 x Trespass Holibag Printed Suitcase
    The winners will be chosen at random by the random winner generator on Rafflecopter and notified within 7 working days by email
    Trespass will make every effort to provide the product detailed here but this cannot be guaranteed

    By entering this competition, you understand that your details may be retained for future mailings. You can unsubscribe from this mailing list at any time.

    There is no monetary equivalent.
    Little Lilypad Co take no /responsibility for loss or damage in the despatch of prizes
    If the prize is unclaimed within 7 days we reserve the right to redraw the winner.
    End Date 01/08/2016 at 12am

    Open to UK residents aged 18 and over only. No cash alternative is available to the prize.

    The final prize is dependent on the stock, sizing and colours available once the winner has been drawn (an equivalent prize may be offered in the unlikely scenario that the size is not in stock"

  4. Like A Girl. It has always been seen as a little bit of an insult hasn't it that phrase? But being "like a girl" is something to be celebrated and the new Always campaign is looking to challenge perspectives and the impact that negatives can have on young women. I have two girls and it is important to me that they grow up believing that they can do anything they want to do from academic excellence to sporting achievements but what is saddening to learn is that over half of girls (64%) give up sport by the end of puberty, with a whopping 80% not believing that they belong in sport!
     
    Laura Trott Keep Playing #LAG_4
     
    Sporting acheivements seem historically linked to male sporting figures and how many times have we heard comments like “girls shouldn’t play that sport” or seen girls’ teams playing in half-filled arenas? What impact does this have on girls and their desire to play sport throughout puberty? These are critical questions that Always, leader in global feminine care and the brand committed to championing girls’ confidence, is asking – an activity recognised for its profound and long-term impact in helping girls build and maintain confidence. As the world prepares for the 2016 Olympic Games, Always wants to urge, encourage and inspire girls everywhere to Keep Playing #LikeAGirl.
     
    Key ‘Always Puberty & Confidence Wave IV’ Study Findings
    • By the time girls reach the age when they finished puberty (16-17 years old), 64% will have quit sports
    • 8 out of 10 girls who quit sport during puberty felt they did not belong in sport
    • Only 1/3 of girls feel that society encourages girls to play sport
    • The top challenges for girls continuing to play sport are that most people believe girls become more self-conscious about/dislike their body (50%), most believe girls are worse at sport than boys (34%) and the lack of respect for girls in sport (32%)
    • 61% wish there were more female role models in sport
    • If there were more female role models in sport then girls aged 16-24 believe that more girls would continue playing sport (47%), there would be more interest in female sport (46%) and female sport would be more popular (42%)
     
    Laura Trott Keep Playing #LAG__2
     
    So the team at Always are inviting everybody to join in to rewrite the rules and keep girls in sport. Pledge that you’ll Keep Playing #LikeAGirl and encourage others to do the same. Upload a picture, shoot a video or tweet using #LikeAGirl to show your support and inspire young girls everywhere to Keep Playing.
     
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    My girls are swimmers, they are both gymnasts and I want them to keep swimming and I want them to keep bending themselves into unimaginable positions for as long as they want to! I want them to feel positive about their abilities and their possibilities ....... so maybe one day they can be a role model for a future generation!