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The Little Lilypad is a lifestyle blog mostly written by a mum to two beautiful, cheeky and entertaining daughters. It is sometimes written by the Man on the Pad or by one of our baby bloggers. Occasionally we accept guest posts too. There is frequently talk of sustainable living, saving money, lifestyle and travel. It is hopefully helpful, sometimes funny and always honest.

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  1. 10 top tips that’ll help your family avoid the winter blues

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    Summer is long gone, and winter will soon arrive. In many ways, it can be the best season of the entire year. However, there’s no doubt that it has the potential to cause woes and worries too. Therefore, taking the necessary precautions to banish those blues is really important.

    Here are 10 focus points that will help you avoid many of the problems that modern families find themselves facing at this time of year.   

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    Preparing for Christmas

    They say it’s the most wonderful time of the year, but Christmas can be a worrying time for families. We try to avoid the materialistic focus, but consumerism has taken over. Treating the kids is a key ingredient in the recipe for festive fun. Unfortunately, if you’re not careful, you’ll be seeing the colour red long after Santa has visited. Sadly, it’ll be all over your bank statements.

    You might not like to admit it, but Christmas is approaching at a rapid speed. Start saving now to get ahead of the game, and you’ll stand a far better chance of encountering the financial headaches you fear. In turn, that’ll allow the whole family to enjoy a far better holiday period.

    Staying fit and healthy

    Unfortunately, there’s no escaping the fact that you’ll probably suffer a bout of flu or minor illness during the next few months. However, without the right precautions, there’s a good chance that you’ll encounter those health issues on a far more frequent basis. Prevention is always the best form of protection, so getting the necessary injections should be top of the agenda. 

    Moreover, you must learn to embrace habits that’ll prevent the threat of germs spreading. Keeping the home clean and organised is vital. Meanwhile, my husband always talks about great hydration and a little daily exercise that can help the body sweat out early signs of flu before it takes its toll. It won’t stop all winter colds, but it can go a long way to helping.

    Keeping up appearances

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    Aside from attacking your physical health, the winter weather can harm your appearances too. In many areas, such as the skin, it can damage both. Therefore, protecting your family is just as crucial at this time of the year as it is in the summer. Even if the precautions are vastly different.

    The wind is another annoying weather type, and it can ruin hairstyles and general appearance. Sadly, looking less than your best can quickly reduce your confidence and natural energy. While this is more likely to affect parents rather than kids, it is a family issue. On a similar note, encouraging a better night’s sleep will significantly boost your appearances. 

    Preventing household damage

    Harsh weather conditions can put the home in a vulnerable position. Prevention is the best form of protection, and covering potentially problematic areas is key. Meanwhile, if you spot signs of damp or other issues in the property, a quick response will stop the damage growing into something worse.

    Letting the trouble escalate will cause far greater emotional and financial headaches in the long run. Borrowing a little money from someone like New Horizons to overcome those obstacles will remove those long-term problems. Let’s face it; knowing that the home is in great health will make a world of difference to your happiness throughout the winter months and beyond.

    Warming the house for winter

    Physical damage isn’t the only home-related concern during the winter months. Maintaining a solid temperature is an equally crucial responsibility. After all, no family wants to be left walking around the home wrapped up in four or five layers of clothing.   

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    Insulation is vital, which makes this the perfect time of year to upgrade the windows or loft insulation. Meanwhile, ensuring that the heating systems are working as required should be another item on the checklist. Remember that all radiators should be left unobstructed. A great little hack, however, is to use shelving above them to help circulate the heat more efficiently.

    Be ready for severe weather

    Winter weather is bad enough at the best of times. However, a snowstorm or seriously adverse conditions can cause havoc (a bit like the Hurricane this week). This may result in schools being shut while getting to the shops could become difficult too. In some scenarios, power lines may be cut for an extended period.    

    Stocking up on some tinned foods is always worthwhile. Creating a suitable emergency kit including torches, batteries and household items can be very useful. If you don’t have a fireplace, candles and blankets are equally important. Otherwise, you could be left in a very uncomfortable situation, which will also make it a far lot scarier for the kids. Avoid it at all costs.

    Resurrect the garden

    Once winter falls, many homeowners allow the garden to fade into obscurity. However, your outside areas can still boast plenty of life throughout the colder months. If you have a decking area with garden lights and a heater, there’s nothing to stop you hosting small gatherings. That fresh air is wonderful, and you don’t have the worries associated with going out elsewhere.

    It’s also worth noting that winter BBQs can be incredibly delicious. These recipes from Backyard Boss are a great starting point. There’s no doubt that you’ll be able to find a suitable solution for your family and friends. If nothing else, this can help banish the winter loneliness.

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    Consider getting some winter fun

    Given that this is an expensive time of the year, taking a vacation might not be viable. Then again, getting some winter sun can be a lot cheaper than going away in the summer. Perhaps more importantly, you’re more likely to appreciate the break from the cold and rain.   

    Even if it means sacrificing the summer vacation, you’ll still have fun at home during June and July.  The options back home are far more restrictive during a wet February. Besides, it’s always nice to start the new year with something special to look forward to as a family. Coming back home with a tan while everyone else looks pale is a nice bonus.   

    Make preparations for next summer

    When the summer returns, you’ll be desperate to start enjoying the warmer weather from day one. By putting in the prep work now, the whole family will be able to do just that. This could include completing a few DIY projects or simply planning out activities. Besides, many of those summer products can be purchased in sales for a more cost-effective solution.

    Boredom is one of the biggest problems throughout the winter months. So, those activities can be a cure for this aspect too. Of course, that shouldn’t get in the way of current ideas. Still, investing a little time in preparation for summer can make the wait feel less daunting. Not least for the kids.

    Learn to enjoy the weather

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    Winter weather can cause a lot of frustration, but it also boasts a unique charm. The snow, for example, can make the whole world look more beautiful than ever. Invest in Merrell walking boots and those family walks can become a winter winner. On a similar note, cooking delicious meals can be an incredible activity that brings you closer than ever.

    Life is what you make of it, and that’s no different in winter. A positive mindset will go a long way to letting you make the most of the colder months. Take the right approach, and this is sure to be the best winter your family has ever enjoyed. If that doesn’t inspire change, perhaps nothing will.

  2. How to save money when buying for Christmas

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    Being frugal in the run up to Christmas isn't always easy. Yes I mentioned the C word, it is October and therefore allowed (unless you speak to my brother who won't allow mention of Christmas before his November birthday ... but I digress).

    So how to save money when all the shops are encouraging you to buy those "must have " gifts and you have a list of friends and relatives as long as your arm? Well I have attempted to remain frugal this week and here's what I have done.

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    Stop-tober

    Stopping shopping in October. There is a campaign at the moment promoting staying sober for October but I decided to stop shopping. I have to admit that this is only for myself but it means no new shoes, clothes, bags or even a cheeky scarf which is already proving difficult as I have two nights out planned already but I have been steadfast ..... so far. 

    Buying Christmas presents on offer

    I have been slowly buying Christmas gifts, not the big ones but the little gifts that my girls like to buy for their friends. I saw a 3 for 2 offer and online discounts at Claire's Accessories this week, so have stock piled gifts at pocket money prices. 

    Re-selling

    I may have become a little addicted to my local selling pages on Facebook. It reminds me of the old Bargain Pages where you could sell anything locally but unlike eBay, there are no seller or Paypal fees and someone will generally come and collect it from your door. The girls are loving making space in anticipation of Christmas and putting money in their piggy banks while doing it. 

    No coffee shops

    I have to admit that I am a big fan of hot chocolate and marshmallows but my regular stop off at Costa is not good for my waistline or my bank balance. So I have stopped going in. Stopped the temptation. Stopped the spending. For now anyway ..... I am already thinking about buying and getting into that Christmas party dress. 

    Remembering not to buy Christmas cards

    I picked up some Christmas cards in the shop the other day but something was nagging at me in the back of my brain that I already had some at home. When I checked at home, I remembered that I had bought a batch of Christmas cards in the sales in January, so I managed to save myself some money without even realising it! 

    What are your top tips for saving at this time of year?

    I’m linking up with CassEmma and Becky in this week’s ‘Five Fabulously Frugal things I’ve done this week linky.

  3. The challenges of being a dad to girls

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    We’re all well aware of those parent-child relationship clichés. For as long as we’ve known, families have always, supposedly, been made up of ‘mummy’s boys’ and ‘daddy’s girls’. Yet, while dads do seem to take a shine to their little bundle of sugar and spice, for the blokes, their bond certainly isn’t an easy walk in the park.

    My husband has openly admitted that he is struggling with the girls growing up, not with the day to day stuff but the realisation that they are influenced by so many other things than us and it made me consider the challenges that Dad's face.

    Dads and their lads

    Let’s flip this on its head a little. The father and son thing seems to be founded on quite uncomplicated dynamics. Dad relives his childhood through his little lad, and gets to be a kid again. It’s all good.

    Whether it’s football, fishing, WWE, LEGO… whatever. Dad’s got this. He knows because, really, he’s just a big kid himself. Of course, not for all, but for many, fathers and sons are almost automatically mates. While there’s an element of discipline in the air, friendship is the predominant theme here.

    Stepping into the unknown

    But what is a dad to do when he holds a baby girl in his arms? When she opens his eyes to new worlds of adventure and unthinkable enjoyment? When she grows into a young girl, with newfound independence? Just what is a dad to do? And that is the challenge.

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    Girls kick dads right where it hurts. As much as most fathers do everything and anything to protect all of their children, there’s something special about his little girl. Even the sassiest of madams are delicate to dad. They will take him into the unknown, making him vulnerable, as he treads unfamiliar ground and lives completely new experiences with his daughter.

    Protecting something precious

    That innocence, that wonder, must be protected. But how? Wrapping little ones up in cotton wool may well work for the first few years, at a push. But being the shoulder to cry on, the big bear arms, the safe warm chest to lean against, will never grow old. Dad must be reliable, comforting… dad must be the man that never hurts her, never lets her down. The hero.

    The struggle is this, at every stage of his little girl’s life, dad needs to explore emotions, listen to heartaches, offer advice. This is something society just hasn’t encouraged our men to do. Yet, the love they feel for their little girl means it is essential.

    As they grow older, into their tweens, their teens, Dads must fight with their own need to protect their daughter from harm, from hurt. Dad must be there when she falls, allowing his own feelings to take the hit. The journey they’ve had together, that unique bond, makes this all the harder.

    After all, when was letting go of something so precious ever easy?

  4. Where is your happy place?

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    I always remember being set an assigment at school that asked us to describe our favourite place in the world but I don't think my teacher was expecting me to go into significant detail as to why my bed was my favourite place!! The assignment was more to do with the places that make us happy and this is was clearly what that teacher was hoping to find!

    According to recent research, eating a pub lunch in the Cotswolds has been voted the nation’s ultimate "happy place", with hiking in the Lake District coming in a close second, followed by eating an ice-cream on Brighton Beach. Interestingly, the researchers from SACO, The Serviced Apartment Company, polled UK holidaymakers and revealed one in four Brits believe there is "no place like home" when it comes to holidays.

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    We recently went on a trip to London to see friends for the weekend and had an amazing time taking in the sights of London, which is apparently number 10 on the list! 

    We were really lucky and got a brilliant day of sunshine to walk around and be tourists for the day. Although hilariously, the research found that 27 percent said it was a must to get blown about on a windy beach and 24 percent said you haven’t experienced a true British holiday until you have been caught in torrential rain.

    You forget how amazing London is and how the history blends with the modern buildings at every turn. I "may" have mentioned in a previous blog post that I walked 20,400 steps that day and while it would have been good fun to go on an open top bus, walking was the healthier option! 

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    Happy Places are not just something that researchers created for marketing purposes, Professor Christopher Peterson wrote a book explaining that when we are acutely aware of the moments in our life that give us pleasure, we can extend these experiences to maximize the amount of pleasure we get from them. Finding our own happy place is good for the mind, body and soul. 

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    So last weekend as we sat in a rooftop bar, looking over St Pauls it is such a shame to think of all the tragedy that London has seen recently because it not only has the ability to inspire happiness but to inspire curiosity, impart historical knowledge and give a sense of patriotism that is rarely found in any other city in the UK.

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    For me, my happy place will always be wherever my friends and family are. As long as we are laughing, we could be anywhere on this list.

    How about you? Where is your happy place?