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The Little Lilypad is a lifestyle blog mostly written by a mum to two beautiful, cheeky and entertaining daughters. It is sometimes written by the Man on the Pad or by one of our baby bloggers. Occasionally we accept guest posts too. There is frequently talk of shoes and clothing (we love fashion and savvy shopping), chocolate (who doesn't love chocolate) education and swimming (we love this too). It is hopefully helpful, sometimes funny and always honest.

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  1. Water Wobbles : Separation Anxiety

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    I regularly blog about our Water Babies adventures and Nanny is delighted that on this new course there is another "Nanny" joining the classes this term. She has taken great pleasure on passing on her wisdom for ease of changing and approaching the lessons (anyone would think she is a dab hand at it these days!!).

    So with the little fish usually being star pupil, Nanny was a little perplexed this week to find that she wouldn't go to Kate the swimming teacher and she cried everytime she went to approach her. Now knowing my youngest daughter can be a cheeky little monkey when she chooses to be, I did wonder if she was just wanting to spend her day with Nanny or if she was feeling off colour but Kate suggested it maybe a stage of seperation anxiety.

    The little fish is now fiercely independant but still needs reassurance from time to time and this is typical of seperation anxiety. I spoke with the Water Babies Midshires team and they recommend allowing the little one time to process information as they are becoming independant but do not know how to be. I suspect that this is what has happened in our case.

    They also say that the early stages of child development & new experiences can also cause anxieties and consequently the "water wobbles".  Things like:

    • Starting to walk or crawl
    • A new experience like nursery, new teacher, new baby in house, change of sleep times
    • Mum goes back to work
    • They have an extended break from lessons e.g. summer holiday
    This totally makes sense to me and it is fabulous to hear that the children who come through the "wobbles", make the most confident in the class. My daughter is usually most confident dancing around the lounge and showing off her water baby skills in the bath tub, so I am sure that this is a one off episode and the only wobbles we will be experiencing are her groovy dance moves in the lounge!