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The Little Lilypad is a lifestyle blog mostly written by a mum to two beautiful, cheeky and entertaining daughters. It is sometimes written by the Man on the Pad or by one of our baby bloggers. Occasionally we accept guest posts too. There is frequently talk of sustainable living, saving money, lifestyle and travel. It is hopefully helpful, sometimes funny and always honest.

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Category: The Toddler Years

  1. Maxstoke Castle : One day of the year.

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    Maxstoke Castle in Warwickshire, is simply 10 minutes from where we live and unless you know where it is nestled behind a barracade of tall trees, you could pass it unnoticed (which I did do for years). It is "technically" not a castle, more of a fortified manor house but I have always had a love of castles and I wouldn't say no to living here. It is amazing to think that Maxstoke Castle is still the family home of the Fetherston - Dilke family and it is only opened to the public annually (usually in mid-June), in aid of local charities. Last weekend was that weekend and I couldn't wait to go and explore but the three year old throught she was going to be a princess for a day, so what can draw the attention of a toddler for a day in the castle, other than thinking she can wear a pretty dress?

    Maxstoke 1

    The long walk up to the castle gave us a trail to see whether the Gruffalo was hiding in the deep dark woods .... he wasn't obviously but we had fun looking.

    Maxstoke 2

    We pretended to be horses, cantering up to the front of the castle and then halting to appreciate the fluted ceiling under the gatehouse. 

    Maxstoke 3

    Then there were adventures to be had, sneaking through tunnels to see where they would lead.

    Maxstoke 4

    To finding secret doorways 

    Maxstoke 5

    And being told that this is where the naughty children sat many years ago. (I may have stretched the history lesson a little bit here)

    Maxstoke 6

    Maxstoke Castle is truly beautiful, it doesn't dominate the surrounding countryside but just sits in all its glory with its mixture of designs from its development through history.

    Maxstoke 7

    The gardens form a large part of the courtyard and make a fabulous forum for a 3 year old to run off some excess energy. 

    Maxstoke 8

    The moat surrounds the whole castle, which we can only assume was a good defence to withstand attacks many years ago and whilst fascinating to a 3 year old, we didn't get too close. 

    Maxstoke 11

    The gardens are beautiful and filled with a variety of flowers but it was the pleasure garden that captured the attention of the toddler. This *may* have had something to do with the sloping walls that proved irresistable to a 3 year old that thinks rolling down hills is the best thing ever.

    Maxstoke 9

    It is really interesting to know that the estate was leased to a country club in the 1930's and they put in swimming pools and tennis courts but due to the threat of war, the country club went into liquidation and the swimming pool filled to continue the gardens.

    Maxstoke 10

    Photography is not allowed inside the castle and I would have loved to capture some of its internal beauty but ultimately it is the Fetherston - Dilke family home and despite my curiosities, I have to respect that. The toddler was unfortunately not overly enthused at the impressive banqueting hall so we couldn't spend as much time as we wanted leaning about the history of the castle (thank goodness for the guide book!).

    Maxstoke Castle is a truly magnificent building, a fantastic day out and ultimately an amazing family home. It is a credit to the Fetherston - Dilke family that they extend a warm welcome to the community and beyond ..... even if it is for just one day a year.

    Do you know of any hidden gems that we can go exploring next?

  2. Sleep Facts & Myths

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    I regularly talk about sleep.

    I love sleep.

    I always feel like I don't get enough.

    I never understand why children insist on denying they are tired when they very clearly are!

    It also makes me laugh when people use the phrase "sleeping like a baby" ..... I am quite sure those people have never had a baby that wakes repeatedly in the night (or a toddler for that matter).

    So I have been looking at the top Sleep Myths  .....

    Sleep Myths

    So how do we get the holy grail of uninterrupted deep sleep? Well aside from asking the grandparents to have small children overnight, sleep experts Sealy believe that our bodies are not uniform so why should our mattresses be any different? Given that we have a small asthma sufferer in our house, it is really interesting to know that the natural “Purotex” addition to Sealy mattress ticks has been endorsed by Allergy UK for the elimination of house dust mites (a common cause of asthma for some 5 million people in the UK and Ireland).

    So aside from making sure that you have the best mattress for you, here are some other sleep related facts (some are quite surprising).

    Sleep Facts

     I am now just working on trying to get the toddler to self soothe ....... wish me luck! 

    Facts & Myths from National Sleep Foundation

  3. 4 things to do before you are Four

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    I recently did a post about 10 things to do before you are 10, so it only seemed right that I do the same kind of post for the toddler. Turning 4 is a big milestone, it is the age that most children start school so what things should a preschooler have done before they start school? I don't mean things like being able to write their own name, counting to 10 or knowing their ABC's because things like the alphabet are retaught as phonics (letter sounds) in reception classes, but I do mean the  life experiences that you can get away with when you are little!

    1. Painting with your hands and feet (if you can stand the mess)

    This actually makes me shudder. I still can't believe this happened in my kitchen but the toddler LOVED it! We got a huge piece of paper roll and pretty much covered the entire kitchen floor and she ran across it, smudged paint with her fingers and generally had a whale of a time. Paint is a great sensory experience.  The cool, squishy, smooth feeling of the paint on their hands, feet, or on their skin is something toddlers really enjoy doing.  

    Toddler Painting

     2. Start to ride independently (with or without stablisers of course)

    Having a big sister means that the toddler has always been keen to follow in her footsteps, she has had a Strider Bike to help with her balance, she has had fun on a scooter but has recently gone on (and on and on) about having a bike. There is no right or wrong age for a child to learn to ride a bike and really there’s an easy way to learn how to cycle, and it involves no special tricks, and no teaching whatsoever. Not from anxious adults anyway. Children teach themselves. In fact, the younger they are, the more fearless they are and ultimately children learn best by trial and error rather than formal instruction.

    Toddler Bike

    3. Roll down a big hill (unless you are allergic to grass pollen of course)

    I made the mistake of showing the toddler how much fun rolling down a hill was. The next ten minutes of my head spinning was not so much fun. She however did it over and over again.  (disclaimer - unfortunately this also means that walking past any hills in future *may* result in the insistence of rolling down it)

    Toddler Rolling

    4. Be a Princess (or a super hero) for the day

    Have you had "that" debate with your toddler? You know the one where they want to wear their Princess dress up outfit to go to the supermarket, or the park or even Nanny's birthday party at a posh restaurant. Do it and if you are feeling really brave, why don't you wear a princess crown too .... it might just make your toddlers day!

    Would you add anything to this list?

     

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  4. What my child thinks about me

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    I have seen these questions going round on Facebook this week and I kept meaning to do them with my girls, so when Emma from Emmaand3.com tagged me to see what my girls thought of me, I stepped up to the challenge.

    WITHOUT ANY prompting, I asked my girls  these questions and wrote down EXACTLY what they said. 

    1. What is something mum always says to you?

    TWEEN: I love you to infinity

    TODDLER : Brush your teeth


    2. What makes mum happy?

    TWEEN : When we are happy.

    TODDLER : Me getting dressed.


    3. What makes mum sad?

    TWEEN : Having to ask me to do things over and over again.

    TODDLER : Me not getting dressed.


    4. How does your mum make you laugh?

    TWEEN : Telling me rubbish jokes

    TODDLER : When she tickles me.


    5. What was your mum like as a child?

    TWEEN : Funny looking

    TODDLER : A good girl


    6. How old is your mum?

    TWEEN : Errrm 35?

    TODDLER : 6


    7. How tall is your mum?

    TWEEN : I think 210cm

    TODDLER : 30 tall (???)


    8. What is her favourite thing to do?

    TWEEN : Spend time with the family

    TODDLER: Wash up (??)


    9. What does your mum do when you're not around?

    TWEEN: Watch movies with Daddy

    TODDLER : Go to work


    10. If your mum becomes famous, what will it be for?

    TWEEN : Being a good mommy

    TODDLER: Musical statues


    11. What is your mum really good at?

    TWEEN : Sewing

    TODDLER : Dancing


    12. What is your mum not very good at?

    TWEEN : Singing

    TODDLER : Drawing

    13. What does your mum do for a job?

    TWEEN : She does stuff on the Lilypad

    TODDLER : She works on her computer


    14.What is your mum's favourite food?

    TWEEN : Cake

    TODDLER : Chicken


    15.What makes you proud of your mum?

    TWEEN : Because she always makes sure the family are happy

    TODDLER : Because you love me.


    16. If your mum were a character, who would she be?

    TWEEN: Snow White

    TODDLER : Belle


    17. What do you and your mum do together?

    TWEEN : Have fun

    TODDLER : Swim


    18. How are you and your mum the same?

    TWEEN : We both love dancing

    TODDLER : We have the same nose

    19. How are you and your mum different?

    TWEEN : I don't wear glasses.

    TODDLER : Same!


    20. How do you know your mum loves you?

    TWEEN : She always hugs and kisses me

    TODDLER : Tells me lots


    21. What does your mum like most about your dad?

    TWEEN : Me!

    TODDLER : Getting married


    22. Where is your mum's favourite place to go?

    TWEEN : Hatton World together

    TODDLER : Swimming with me


    23. How old was your mum when you were born?

    TWEEN : 24

    TODDLER : 5

    Siblings June 14

    What do you think your child's answers would be?