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The Little Lilypad is a lifestyle blog mostly written by a mum to two beautiful, cheeky and entertaining daughters. It is sometimes written by the Man on the Pad or by one of our baby bloggers. Occasionally we accept guest posts too. There is frequently talk of sustainable living, saving money, lifestyle and travel. It is hopefully helpful, sometimes funny and always honest.

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  1. Can you feed a family of four on £10? #cbias

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    For the avoidance of doubt, I am a member of the Collective Bias®  Social Fabric® Community.  This shop has been compensated as part of a social shopper insights study for Collective Bias and their client. Now the formalities are out of the way, let me tell you about our £10 challenge!

    How often do we really think about what we are spending? I don’t mean in total, I mean when we are throwing things into our shopping trolleys or online baskets, are we really conscious of how it is adding up? My eldest daughter is now in Junior school and we have weekly homework on multiplication and division and whilst I may moan at her to do it each week, she actually has a good knack for maths, so when we were set the challenge to create a yummy family meal for £10, we put her in charge of the calculations.

    Asda

    So off we trooped to the Asda store in Minworth, Birmingham, which despite being by my parents’ house, is actually quite a rare event for me when I do most of my shopping, including the groceries, online. I was pleasantly surprised to find ample parent and child parking spaces, as given the hot weather I was expecting it to be heaving with people buying BBQ food. Both children wanted to get in the trolley, which meant we needed a big trolley (although we didn’t have a spare pound coin for the smaller trolley anyway. It still baffles me why they have a coin release on those and the bigger ones don’t?) and so we entered the lovely cool store.

    Even upon entering, we were still unsure of what we were actually going to buy as our meal. It has been so hot over the last few days that we haven’t really felt like cooking or eating big meals so as we were browsing round, we thought a cooked chicken would be a good idea. We navigated our way through the busy aisles towards the hot food counter and my daughter asked the question "are these the same price as a normal chicken" and to her credit, she found that the fresh chickens were considerably cheaper, leaving much more of our budget to spend on other things.

    Chicken!

    I am most definately not the gourmet chef in our house but with the weather being so scorching hot outside, the inclination to create a full on meal was fairly non existent. Thankfully both my girls love their veg, (which can sometimes be a challenge in itself when we dine out as everything seems to come with chips and beans) so we chose some seasonal veg to go with the garlic chicken and some garlic potatoes .... good job we are only kissing each other! They all came freshly sealed in ready to cook foil tins, which was not only handy but reduced the washing up too!!

    Calculating the Cost

    The chief estimator told us that we had just over £1 left, so she went off in search of something for dessert and came back with Moshi Monster cakes. It wouldn't have been my choice but she was so excited that she had found something in the budget, who was I to argue?

    So in the end, we had a fresh chicken, flavoured with garlic and herbs, seasonal vegetables including courgettes and aubergines, garlic potatoes and cabbage. Asda have a great range of "ready to cook" vegetables so it really was a case of popping it in the oven and waiting for it to be cooked. (now that is my kind of cooking). One thing I was really pleased with about our shop was that we didn't have to buy the cheapest or "budget" options, to meet our £10 challenge.

    Our £10 meal

    I have to admit that the Moshi Monster cakes were a little more labour intensive but the girls really got involved in the mixing (and testing of the cake mix - obviously) and I had to get involved with the extra cleaning of the cake covered floor. They had a great time, with big sister assuming responsibility for reading the instructions (she is quite good at literacy aswell as maths! She must take after her mother!). In the end the cakes looked more like little green blobs than cakes but apparently that was the point and for £1, it certainly kept them captivated.

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    Grocery shopping is usually a one man (or woman's) job in our house, usually by me ordering online late at night, so it was great to get us all involved with the meal selection and even the cake making!

    The savings in store are undeniable and as someone who doesn't shop instore on a regular basis, I can see the benefits. However, unless you bring your 8 year old (or a calculator), you don't really take account of the things you are adding into your trolley and with so many good deals on offer, it is easy for the shopping bill to mount up. Asda really do seem to have everything, including toys, games, sweets and everything else that entices children ..... not to mention the musical ride on's that are always so conveniently placed by the front door, so whilst we had great fun with our £10 challenge, it wasn't quite enough to stop me ordering (and budgeting) online.

    As for the £10 challenge .... I think we did pretty good!

     The finished meal

     

  2. How do you find the perfect outfit?

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    I often have friends request to “raid” my wardrobe as I have a collection of dresses for most occasions but when it came to my eldest daughter’s First Holy Communion, I obviously didn’t have anything to wear. Now as a mum, there are a multitude of things that you need to take into consideration when attending a church/school event with your 8 year old child and her friends;

    • Firstly you need to be a little bit cool / on trend
    • Secondly, not so on trend that you show her and her friends up as they are all suddenly big followers of fashion. (the recent request for crop tops scares me a little).
    • Thirdly, we need to remember that we are going to church, so we need to dress appropriately and not for a night out. In the words of aforementioned 8 year old, “God wouldn’t like it”.

    So after scouring the internet for the perfect outfit and parcels coming and parcels going, my gorgeous other half said that we needed to go shopping. I was a bit perplexed as this is what I thought I had been doing but he was suggesting going into actual department stores and trying things on in changing rooms <<shudder>>.

    So I reluctantly agreed as time was running out and the we ventured out to our closest John Lewis store where in the words of my other half, “there are floors full of clothes, make up, bags, shoes, homeware, garden furniture and even ceiling lights so surely we must be able to get something in here” I was hoping he wasn’t suggesting I wear a bag or a ceiling light but I kind of appreciated where he was coming from and although I don’t like admitting he was right, I found the perfect dress on offer too (although I did get the shoes and bag in the sale online - ever the bargain hunter).

    John Lewis Outfit Salvation

    Her Holy Communion was my first experience of such an event and the day was beautiful. I know that ultimately it is her dress that is the important one but it was nice to get something that even she looked and said “wow mummy, you look lovely”.  It just worries me that if an 8 year old can have such an opinion on fashion …. What is she going to be like at 18??

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  3. Do not pass go, do not collect £200

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    Isn't it funny how things can change so dramatically in a generation? I was telling my eldest daughter to go to bed the other night and she was doing her usual trick of using every delaying tactic in the book and I said, "go to bed, do not pass go, do not collect £200". She simply looked at me with a confused face and asked me what I meant. Only a few days later, when I was delirious with exhaustion, a friend told me to "go to bed, do not pass go and do not collect £200". I smiled. 

    My daughter had no idea that the phrase I used was from Monopoly, especially when in the modern game the monetary values are multiplied by 10,000, so instead of £200 it is £2,000,000 and all payments are made by card. Admitedly, I very rarely carry cash with me, so the use of the card is much more relevant to our household but it still makes me a little sad that "old fashioned" games cannot just stay the way they are.

    I remember my grandad teaching me how to play chess and we would sit there for hours on end working out the next move. I cannot imagine my daughters sitting still for that long ..... unless there was a touch screen and interactive prompts.

    Chess

    Technology is very much part of our household and our daily life (clearly evident by our online boutique and blog) but it would be lovely to switch it off and just go back to basics. We still love to draw (with real pens and pencils), we craft and we make daisy chains but the girls have TV programmes on demand, technology at their fingertips and computer skills better than my mum!

    In reality I know that life moves on and things change but wouldn't it be nice to play solitaire with real cards or a game of chess without the hints and tips? Or should I simply accept that I cannot pass go, I cannot collect £200 and I cannot go back?

    Do you miss the simplicity of your childhood or am I wearing rose tinted glasses?

    Image courtesy of Freedigitalphotos.net.

  4. Planning for a family day out : Top Tips

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    Does the thought of a family day out fill you with excitement or dread? I love planning activities for the family and usually the most stressful part of it is actually getting out of the front door with the right number of children, car games, phones, bags, nappies, wipes, snacks .... you name it, if I haven't got it, the children want it!

    As parents, finding the perfect day out that suits everyone is sometimes no mean feat, especially if like our family you have varying ages with the children, so what suits one child may not be suitable for another. We love a picnic in the park (weather permitting of course) and we can take activities that are age appropriate for everyone .... including the grown ups! Bike rides, a game of rounders, frisbee and football are fabulous entertainment for all the family but I have to admit that we are all slight adrenalin junkies in our house, so are huge fans of theme parks. Now I have to say that after an incident, circa 1991, I shall never ever set foot on a waltzer or any other ride that spins round but I love the thrill of a roller coaster. My girls take a little bit of convincing but the cost of a day out at a theme park can be expensive for a family of four ... or more!

    Rollercoaster

    So as ever, I am always on the hunt for a good deal or a bargain, it is a running joke with my family that I never want to pay full price for anything. It isn't because I begrudge paying it but if I can save money on that, it means more money to spend on other things *insert shoes here*. Regular readers will know that I am a fan of the MyFamilyClub website and its money savings tips for parents and I found some great ideas for saving money on tickets for Thorpe Park and Legoland.

    My only fear of theme parks is the vast size of them, in comparison to my tiny children, so when I went to BritmumsLive last weekend, I was super impressed to receive a sample of a Kattoo in my goody bag. They are a fabulous little invention for children who are old enough to walk (and walk off) but not old enough to remember their parents phone number. So you can pop a Kattoo (a temporary tattoo) on their arms, write your phone number with the special pen and voila!

    So I am now armed with excitement, great discounts for entry and kattoo's (just incase) .... I just need to convince the children now!

    Photo credit to foto76 from Freedigitalphoto